The Marriage Monitoring Aunties Association is out!
- busywrites
- Jul 25, 2025
- 3 min read
Aunties, mayhem, jollof rice and mature love all wrapped into a package of love, laughs and enduring faith.
Kindle Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars A Feel Great Book
Reviewed in the United States on 14 July 2025
I enjoyed reading it as a single 30+ woman. There were many relatable themes and I loved that the author did not make the main character compromise on her values and beliefs to find the love she needed
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 13 July 2025
The Marriage Monitoring Aunties’ Association is a warm, witty and refreshingly grown-up story about love, family and the pressures of cultural expectations. Sade Sodipo is a brilliant lead, navigating her fifties with grace, humour and an unwavering sense of self, despite the constant interference of her well-meaning but overbearing circle.
Ola Awonubi captures the voices of the aunties perfectly, blending comedy with sharp social insight. I really enjoyed how the book explored what it means to be single later in life, especially within a culture that often sees marriage as the ultimate goal. Sade’s reluctance to settle and her quiet confidence in her own timing felt authentic and empowering.
The romance is gentle and slow-burning, which I appreciated. It felt earned and believable. I especially liked that Sade did not compromise her standards, even under pressure from those around her. Her journey is not just about finding love, but about honouring her own worth.

Thank you so much for the love, messages, and support since the launch of The Marriage Monitoring Aunties’ Association! It’s been such a joy to see this story out in the world—and even more joyful to hear how it’s resonating with you.
If you’ve already read it, thank you. If you’re still deciding, here are five reasons why this book might just be your next favourite read—or the perfect gift for someone you love.
💍 1. It’s laugh-out-loud funny—but deeply moving
Yes, there are meddling aunties. Yes, there are awkward family dinners. But beneath the humour is a heartfelt story about identity, love, and the courage to choose your own path.
👵🏾 2. It celebrates aunties, elders, and cultural wisdom
This book is a love letter to the women who raised us, questioned us, and (sometimes) judged us—but always wanted the best for us. It’s about the power of intergenerational connection, even when it’s complicated.
💘 3. It’s a love story that doesn’t follow the rules
Our heroine isn’t just looking for love—she’s trying to define it on her own terms. If you’ve ever felt torn between tradition and freedom, this story will speak to you.
4. It sparks real conversations
Readers have told me this book made them reflect on their own relationships, family dynamics, and the quiet pressures we carry. It’s perfect for book clubs, sister chats, and long WhatsApp voice notes.
🎁 5. It’s the perfect gift
Know someone who loves a good romcom with depth? A friend navigating love and expectations? An auntie who needs to see herself on the page? This book is for them.
Where to Buy
Buy on Amazon UK, Waterstones, Foyles, WHSmith, Audible, Bookshop.co.uk
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